Domestic Helper Films TikTok Video While Helping Elderly Man Shower, Gets Arrested For Voyeurism

Domestic Helper Films TikTok Of Elderly Man In Shower, Takes It Down Afterwards

TikTok has become a mainstream social media platform to share videos. However, the unregulated digital space can be dangerous as much as it is fun.

Last Saturday (2 Jan), a TikTok video by a domestic helper in Singapore went viral after it was reposted in several Facebook groups.

The uncensored video reportedly showed the helper filming herself while helping an elderly man shower.

Soon after on Sunday (3 Jan), the helper was arrested for voyeurism.

Domestic helper films TikTok of elderly man showering

The minute-long TikTok video starts off with the domestic helper setting up the camera in the bathroom with the elderly man seated in the background.

She then grabs the shower head and holds it over the senior.


She is then seen passing the elderly man a bar of soap and razor.

Help arrested for voyeurism

According to AsiaOne, the domestic helper has since removed the video from her TikTok account.

The son of the elderly man in the video later lodged a police report over the incident, reported Lianhe Zaobao.


The 32-year-old helper was soon arrested for voyeurism on Sunday (3 Jan), just a day after the video gained virality.

Police investigations are currently ongoing.

Netizens say helper had crossed a line

The latest incident is not the first of its kind but has certainly shifted the spotlight on privacy concerns when it comes to domestic helpers.

Naturally, the TikTok video drew flak from netizens on Facebook.

Many opined that the helper had crossed a line by filming the elderly in such a vulnerable state and subsequently sharing it online.


Another netizen shared that individuals need to be very careful about what is posted online, especially when featuring other individuals.


Speaking to Lianhe Zaobao, a spokesperson from Advance Link International maid agency shared that domestic helpers should respect their employers’ privacy.

This should include sharing photos or videos taken in the home, let alone in the shower.

Think carefully before posting on social media

For domestic helpers, navigating the space between what is appropriate and what encroaches on their employers’ privacy can be tricky.

This is especially so on social media where they too want to share snippets of their daily lives with family and friends.

Nonetheless, there is undoubtedly a threshold that should never be crossed, like filming someone showering.

We hope this is an important lesson for everyone to think carefully about what they are sharing on social media before hitting the ‘post’ button.

Have news you must share? Get in touch with us via email at

Featured image adapted from Facebook and Facebook.

Sabrina Seng

Sabrina is always facing some form of existential crisis but other than that, she's pretty chill.

Recent Posts

SPH Media has received S$320M in Govt funding & did not meet KPIs: Josephine Teo

It didn't receive the full funding that was committed as it didn't meet all its…

2 Mar 2024, 2:01 am

New hawker centre opens at Bukit Batok West in 2025, will have 22 food stalls

A tender for its operator was called on 28 Feb.

2 Mar 2024, 12:35 am

More thundery showers expected in 1st half of March, 35°C temperatures on a few days

The second week of March may see 35°C temperatures when there is less cloud coverage.

1 Mar 2024, 10:50 pm

Malnourished & mistreated: Cats in Geylang cat café rescued after reports of neglect

SPCA had observed "concerning" signs of compromised welfare.

1 Mar 2024, 5:36 pm

S’porean women fall victim to hate crime in Ireland, one had Coke can thrown at head

One of the Irish boys used a derogatory slang for Asians against the woman at…

1 Mar 2024, 5:04 pm