President Halimah Asks OkLetsGo Podcast To Apologise For Comments About Women
Popular local podcast OKLETSGO (OLG) hosted on Spotify has faced scrutiny recently due to “misogynistic” & “lewd” comments about women, and for perpetuating unhealthy narratives.
We’ve covered the controversy and netizens’ reactions here.
Amidst calls for accountability & an apology, President Halimah Yacob surprised everyone on Monday (15 Jun) with a lengthy post calling out the behavior.
Her account resonated with netizens, garnering 660 shares within close to 30 minutes of the Facebook post. We summarise her thoughts on the issue below.
Covid-19 has impacted women around the world
President Halimah begins her post by outlining the “terrible consequences” that women around the world – incidence of violence – have had to deal with.
Educating a community on “respect for women” is thus crucial, not just in the context of an epidemic, but a “lifetime process”.
We are all responsible for influencing young minds
Young boys learn how to treat women with respect by emulating how their fathers treat their mothers, shares Mdm Halimah.
And this ongoing process will eventually influence & inform their relationships in the future.
Next, President Halimah makes an impassioned statement about how those with social media influence will affect impressionable minds,
This duty to mould the minds of the young to develop healthy & respectful relationships with women does not rest with the family alone.
The social responsibility to build a culture of respect to all individuals regardless of their gender rests on all of us, she adds.
Perpetuating troubling stereotypes is not okay
Referencing the “lewd” comments made on the OLG podcast, President Halimah points out why the behaviour is not okay for the following reasons.
By perpetuating “inferior” images of women for the sole purpose of “male sexual gratification”, we must also be “held responsible” for advocating incidents of violence against women.
If these mindsets are normalised, it will impact our subcultures & make such behaviour acceptable in the long-run.
President Halimah also highlights the problematic aspects of featuring such comments in a podcast:
- Women aren’t “objects to ridicule”
- Never okay to treat “women like punching bags”
- Cheap pot shots shouldn’t be taken to “boost ratings”
- Offensive jokes aren’t justified under “freedom of speech”
By perpetuating these narratives, women’s contributions to family & by extension society at large would be devalued.
Fostering a culture of respect and healthy conversations can’t begin from a “starting point” of “degrad(ing) women”, stated the President.
President calls for a sincere & humble apology
Finally, Mdm Halimah requests for a sincere & humble apology to all women for their “offensive, humiliating & misogynistic remarks” shared in OLG’s previous podcasts.
Speaking out on behalf of multiple emails from “very concerned” citizens, the President hopes that these kind of values will not be taught or normalised in our future generations.
OkLetsGo podcast team “appreciate(s) constructive feedback”
As far as an apology goes, the OLG team has uploaded a statement on Sunday (13 Jun), prior to the President’s Facebook post.
The lengthy statement essentially acknowledges that there’s room for “improvements” in terms of the content & that they “appreciate the constructive feedback”.
Netizens have also pointed out that the “muted response” reads less like an apology than a clarification of the issue.
An apology has been sought, hope OLG heeds the call
Women in Singapore take on multiple roles in society — from sisters, daughters, mothers & wives to leaders spearheading our community & economy.
Thankfully, our meritocratic system also ensures that our young girls get a proper education & a chance to excel in what they’re passionate about when they’re older.
We hope that OLG will heed the President’s call in considering how their comments have impacted a culture of respect for our women & issue a sincere apology soon.